The theme of love seemed never exhausted to talk, never cracked to narrated, never stale for discussion. Every person is different in the manifest love. For parents, love is happiness when the baby looks cute and clever or love is the protection and expression of love saying when her baby was sick so lost joy. The wise man said to the child's parents love is true love.
If he is an eroticism, then love for him is how many pieces he has vcd porn watch, how many women who have been dating and how much he teasing and abusing it. Maybe he was supporting the theory of Sigmund freud who believes that human life is driven by the id (libido) only. Love does not always bring pleasure but can also bring sadness, disappointment and even hatred. Between love and sexual freedom really different, love is love each other, watch each other, protect each other, give each other with firm boundaries syar'i.
Research Results
In 2005, the author conducted research on the sexual behavior of adolescent high school in Surakarta. The subject of this study amounted to 1250 persons, derived from 10 high school in Surakarta, which consisted of 611 male subjects and 639 female subjects.
Most subjects had used the media of pornography, the male subjects as many as 497 people (81.34%) and 181 female subjects (28.32%); subjects who claimed never to use the media of pornography on male subjects as many as 114 people ( 18.66%), female subjects 458 individuals (71.67%). Most of the subjects said they had watched pornographic movies, the male subjects as many as 403 people (28.54%) and 111 female subjects (34.91%), a small portion of pornography through the photos on male subjects 135 people (9, 56%) and female subjects 22 people (6.92%).
Some subjects 212 were male (34.69%) admitted that sometimes doing masturbation, female subjects 27 people (4.23%), and 77 people (12.60%) male subjects and 9 people (1, 41%) women admitted until now still active in masturbation.
Most of the subjects claimed to have been dating. Age of first dating mostly 15-17 years male subjects as many as 246 people (53.25%) and 272 female subjects (57.99%), aged 20-22 years by 1 person (0.22%) on the subject of women was not found. Most of the subjects claimed to have changed a girlfriend for 1-2 times, namely on the subject of male-lakisebanyak 194 people (41.99%) and in female subjects as many as 196 people (41.79%). Most of the subjects admitted undergo courtship activity 2 - 6 months, namely the male subjects 171 (37.01%) in female subjects as many as 153 people (32.62%), on the subject of male courtship activity less than 1 month as many as 81 people (17.53 %) in female subjects as many as 67 people (14.28%). Courtship activity subject mostly done at home itself is in the male subjects 164 people (23.33%), on the subject of women as much as 37 people (5.23%).
Subjects who had sexual intercourse of 462 male subjects of dating found in 139 people (30.09%), who claimed to have had sexual intercourse than women who are dating 469 subjects found 25 people (5.33%). The reason they have sex as a proof of love in the male subjects of 57 people (38.51%), whereas in female subjects 6 people (24%); by reason of being raped or forced the male subjects 4 people (2.70 %) in female subjects 2 people (8%).
Age of the subject was first sexual intercourse is 15-17 years which is in men by 60 people (43.16%) in female subjects 12 people (48%). Sexual intercourse is mostly conducted along with her boyfriend, the male subjects 105 (53.29%) while in female subjects 21 people (84%).
After having sexual relations most subjects were satisfied or pleasure, the male subjects 61 people (43.88%), whereas in female subjects of 3 people (12%). Most subjects believe sexual intercourse is sinful: in male subjects 329 individuals (34.52%), whereas in female subjects 417 individuals (42.12%).
Most of the reason teenagers have sex is due to environmental influences, vcd, books and pornographic movies that is: the male subjects as many as 389 people (29.07%), whereas in female subjects 444 individuals (31.11%). The reason for the progress of time and let slang, male subjects 113 people (8.44%), in female subjects 99 people (6.94%).
